In the ninth episode of Born in Trouble, host John X and guests Grant Lancaster and Andrew Johnson delve into various topics ranging from relationship dynamics and societal expectations to the complexities of modern-day political figures. They discuss the unrealistic standards many people have in relationships, sharing personal anecdotes and professional insights about finding true partnership. The conversation also touches on the misuse of labels like 'homophobic' or 'racist', advocating for a deeper understanding beyond superficial judgments. The episode wraps up with a reflective conversation on the legacy of late rapper Craig Mack, cautioning against sensationalizing his life for monetary gain. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that challenges conventional wisdom and societal norms.00:00 Introduction and Host's Mantra00:38 Meet the Guests01:19 Diving into Drama03:06 Relationship Expectations05:06 The 80% Rule in Relationships08:00 Realistic Partner Expectations09:12 Personal Stories and Experiences14:07 The Reality of High Standards17:17 Financial Realities and Relationship Dynamics24:32 The Unicorn Partner Myth28:55 Parental Influence and Societal Pressures29:58 Honest Conversations and Real-Life Experiences31:00 Addressing Misconceptions and Stereotypes32:36 Switching Gears: Remembering Craig Mack33:28 Controversies and Rumors Surrounding Craig Mack44:29 Political Hypocrisy and Social Issues57:15 Final Thoughts and Reflections